It’s come and gone. After months of planning and buying and preparing and agonizing over the weather, it’s over. December 8th is a day we will never forget. A day of witnessing and celebrating the marriage of two very special people. Nan and Perrin got married on a cold day right before a major snowstorm hit North Carolina.
The wedding was truly a family affair. Hart and I prepared all of the food, down to the wedding cake. Our guests were our immediate family and my wonderful friends helped us set up and served the food for the wedding dinner.
Nan’s sister, Cate wrote the music for the processional and to this day I can’t listen to it without tears. It is so moving. Her sisters and best friends were her bridesmaids and honorary bridesmaids.
The bride and her entourage got dressed at our house , the only home Nan had known. It was a crazy time with people every where . The videographer was in and out as was the photographer. The children were running around and lots of cooking was going on in the kitchen!
All of Nan’s nieces were her flower girls. They had their own fairy table at the reception with jars of fairy dust, coloring books and glow sticks to amuse themselves. At the bonfire they roasted marshmallows and lit sparklers. A few of the little girls wore their fairy wings and by the fire in the dark, looked like angels running around.
Perrin’s brother was his best man. His two best friends and his future brother-in-law’s were groomsmen. God provided a lovely day for this event. It was cold but not raining and the big snow came during the night. Thankfully, because we got 18″!
It was a magical night with a beautiful ceremony. Nan’s sister, Lauren read a poem called Grow Old With Me and her brother-in-law, Witt shared a special message to the couple and those attending. The music was played by two very talented musicians,who are sisters, and the sisters of our son-in-law, Gabe. The photographer was his cousin. Before the father- daughter dance , Nan’s sister, Claire read a poignant letter that Nan had written for her dad. That’s where the tears started for me.
Bayberry Farm has always been a place of joy for Nan, as it was one of her first jobs, caring for the horses there. The owner, Lori, calls Nan her farm daughter. She has taught her so much! Horses are one of her loves and are what her future holds, as a Therapeutic Recreation major. The farm is where she wanted to get married. I’m so happy we could make it happen.